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HORMONES and SRS ASSESSMENT
Our greatest glory is not in never falling
but in rising everytime we fall
THE GENDERED SELF - Anne Vital PhD
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This online gender service has for the past 12 years provided counselling as a means to assist people who suffer gender related issues, through the use of written communication (chat). As a vehicle to bring about not only change, but to provide an understanding of why that individual has had feelings of gender dysphortia and difference from an early age. It then looks at the direction they would like to take after gaining knowledge and a thorough understanding of their gender dysphoria.. Whether written or spoken, online therapy is a valuable core component of communication. Whilst some may think that communication is best achieved through face to face interaction and verbal exchanges, there is in fact little evidence, if any, to back this; in fact, the anonymity and lack of inbred subjectivity that is identifiably apparent through online therapy, at most times assists the individual to open up more easily and feel more free to express themselves. More than they may normally do so in a conventional face to face situation. Thus, in terms of gender counselling and assessment this has had positive results in enabling the client of let go of that 'secret' then embracing it and coming to terms with what is inside. A major and tormented part of themselves which many have held back and repressed over the years. I use the process of 'informed consent '.
The following definition is from the Informed Consent for Access to Trans Health (ICATH) website:
“When a person gives “Informed Consent,” it means that the individual possesses the cognitive ability to make an informed and independent decision about their health care and are choosing to do so without coercion.
The individual understands both the benefits and potential risks of the choice they are making and is able to anticipate how that choice may impact them now and in the future. In other words, the individual has the capacity and all of the information needed to make a completely informed decision.”
Online gender counselling is in many aspects more secure, confidential, and private than traditional face-to-face therapy/counselling. Mainly due to its unique qualities, the counselling takes place in an anonymous or pseudonymous context. This provides a level of security and confidentiality that cannot be matched in a therapist office. It also gets rid of the subjectivity.
Online therapy therefore offers a valuable new approach which extends to an isolated group of people, who hold a concern of their gender related feelings and issues of confidentiality acceptance and privacy. It also extends to those living in isolated areas, places where there are no available counsellors and people who are housebound, disabled plus those who may not normally have access to a gender health service.
To 'correct' birth gender difference many transsexuals endure years of torments and suffering and undergo personal and mayor life-changes through a planned process of 'transitioning'. This change requires acceptance, understanding, knowledge, information, support and guidance all of which are combined and essential factors that can enable a person with a gender dysphoria, to fully achieve their 'true self' and then be able to live the rest of their lives in psychological harmony and spiritual balance.
This procedure can be accomplished not merely by way of a hormones SRS and related operations, but in tandem with full recognition and acceptance accompanied by the enablement of their inner self and an unending desire, all of which is normally achieved by simply fusing both their mind and body as one. This essential journey for some transsexuals enables the individual to live a normal non-dysphoric happier and more contented life, for the majority both during and after transitioning, rather than them remaining in a state of social isolation, unhappiness, anxiety, depression and dysphoric confusion.
To assist you in achieving the above my mission as a fully qualified and experienced gender specialist and member of The World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH) (formerly known as the Harry Benjamin International Gender Dysphoria Association (HBIGDA)) The American Counseling Association (ACA) and a member "The Psychological Association of the Philippines" (PAP) my aim is to endeavor and provide, though counseling sessions, appropriate information and guidance in a constructive and non judgmental manner, together with ongoing support for all transgender clients. As I am at most times the first gender professional contacted, no matter what I am referred to, my overall intention is to become a trusted advocate and a source of information strength and support
As a counsellor and experienced mental health professional specializing in Male to Female and Female to Male gender change, cross dressing activity, dysphoria and other related topics. I offer individualized online counselling and assessment leading in a timely manner to letters of recommendation for both hormones, surgery and other related topics. I further provide advice, support and time-limited guidance for cross-gender and other kinds of personal expression.
On contact I offer a short initial discussion, this can be used to ask questions and gather information about my service. Schedule appointments and discuss the professional service fee. If you feel that you could benefit from the service I have to offer, simply follow the instruction to commence your online relationship If you would like to reach me directly - please use one of the 'Chat boxes above, leave a message or simply e-mail me at email@example.com.
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